We all internalize narratives about ourselves and the world from the culture in which we grew up. Some of those narratives serve us. Others don’t. The good news is, we can pick and choose which of those narratives we choose to believe as adults, and discard the rest. The bad news is, it isn’t easy.

If there’s a story you’re telling yourself or someone else that has you stuck, come see me. If you’re feeling ashamed of a particular identity or interest or just don’t know how to tell others about it, come see me. I’ve been doing the work of healing myself from shame, invalidation, and internalized toxic messages for over a decade; I can help.

Dana offers sliding scale identity and relationship coaching and workshops as a way to build community, perform identity, and draw on the power of narrative and storytelling to shape our lives and goals.

Dana also offers consultations and workshops to mental health professionals and educators working with clients in the LGBTQIA+, BDSM, and/or polyamory communities.

Examples of possible topics include:

– Overcoming Anxiety in Public Speaking

– Healthy Relationship Education

– Healthy Communication / Conflict Resolution

– Community-Building and Activist Circles

– Opening Up / Polyamory / Non-monogamy

– LGBTQIA+ / Gender Identity

– BDSM / Fetish / Kinks

– How Trauma Affects the Brain

– Compassion Fatigue & Burnout

– Improvisation & Creative Drama

– Theatre of the Oppressed

– Psychodrama Vignettes

Not sure if I can help you? Don’t hesitate to ask!


Individuals, couples, friends, roommates, and larger groups are all welcome. LGBTQIA+, kink, and polyamory-aware.

Coaching available via phone, Skype, and in person. Sliding scale from $20-60/hr. Payment in cash or via PayPal. You can also call Dana through Clarity.

Dana is also on Fiverr for coaching and social justice advocacy

For more information or to schedule an appointment, fill out this form.